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Wednesday, November 7, 2012

30 Years Ago - So Thankful

30 years ago, an amazing daughter was born.  Not my daughter, but my sister.

Lindsey came into this world breathing new life in my family of four.

Oh I didn't want a new baby in the house.  I was mortified.  How on earth did my parents get pregnant?  Better yet, I knew how;  I just couldn't fathom how since I knew how that they didn't know how to prevent it.  I mean, I was in health class...did they need to start attending with me?

Ugh...I was just so very embarrassed.  

For I was 15.  And no 15 year old wants vivid, real life proof that her parents are having sex.  Blech!

I moped.  I pouted.  I acted a fool.  I ignored.  I behaved like a teen-ager.

And then she was here.  

Instant love.

And 30 years later that love is just as intense and present.

Though I went on to college out of town when she was 2 1/2 years old our bond was and is still so very solid.  I didn't know what I was missing until I had it in front of me.

When I got pregnant with Tate and found out he was a boy I was beside myself wondering how I was going to raise a little boy.  I had always seen myself as the mom of a girl.

And then I realized I had already been present and part of the raising of a girl... 

Lindsey.

Isn't God amazing?

Happy 30th Birthday Little Sister!


These are just a few of the many pics of Lindsey since Tate was a baby. 


















































Tate and I are so very thankful to have her in our lives.



3 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful post!! You two look a lot alike!!

Abby said...

She looks like an amazing auntie!!! And what adorable photos!

If you are blogging from NYC and have access to all those photos, I'm incredibly impressed! I'm also incredibly impressed if you got that all ready before you left town and just had to publish it from afar!

hoping to see you tomorrow!

Laraf123 said...

When I was 15, I would have given anything to have a baby sister. Come to think of it, I'd still give anything to have a sibling. This is a wonderful post about one amazing family!